As long as you’re both in agreement about it.Įngaging in a threesome can be fun, but also complicated. Make sure you go into it with clear agreements and boundaries as a couple. QUESTION: I have been married for 16 years to a wonderful man.Įnsure that the third party also knows about any boundaries and agreements relevant to them.įinally, keep in mind that just because she wants something different in bed, doesn’t mean that she doesn’t still want to be in a relationship with you. But for the last four years there has been no sex in our marriage. My husband was addicted to ice and speed for over 10 years and he is clean and sober for the last six years. I only found out about the drugs in the last seven years. I stayed with him as he is a wonderful husband and father away from the drugs. And I wanted to support him to get clean. In this last four years, I have also put on a huge amount of weight due to my health. I know he says he has no sexual desire anymore.īut I am not sure if I have turned him off due to my weight or if it is from being sober he doesn’t want or feel the same way about me anymore. Need some help desperately as I don’t know if our marriage will survive this disconnection.ĪNSWER: It’s difficult for me to give you a definitive answer on why your partner has lost sexual desire or his sexual desire with you without speaking to him. I’ve written previously about sexual desire having ‘brakes’ and ‘accelerators’.
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